The Parachurch as an Emotional Organism: Applying Peter L. Steinke’s Family Systems Theory to Ministries

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The landscape of faith-based nonprofit organizations, particularly parachurch ministries such as Gospel Rescue Missions (GRMs), is characterized by extreme relational, operational, and theological complexity. These organizations operate at the turbulent intersection of profound human suffering, complex clinical needs, civic politics, and deeply held religious convictions. Traditionally, the analysis of such organizations has relied on mechanistic models of leadership, focusing on strategic planning, resource mobilization, structural efficiency, and programmatic outputs. However, a purely mechanistic lens fails to account for the powerful, invisible emotional forces that dictate organizational behavior, staff retention, and programmatic success.

To fully understand the inner workings of a parachurch ministry, it is necessary to view the organization through the lens of Bowen Family Systems Theory, particularly as it was adapted for faith communities by the late Peter L. Steinke. Building upon the foundational work of Murray Bowen and Rabbi Edwin Friedman, Steinke posited that congregations and faith-based organizations function not merely as voluntary associations, but as complex “emotional organisms”1. In this framework, the organization is a living, breathing biological entity with its own nervous system, reactive patterns, and deeply ingrained survival mechanisms1.

When applied to a Gospel Rescue Mission, Steinke’s material provides a profound diagnostic tool for understanding the systemic challenges inherent in serving marginalized populations. GRMs are routinely exposed to chronic anxiety generated by external cultural shifts, funding uncertainties, and the secondary traumatic stress absorbed from clients experiencing homelessness, addiction, and severe mental illness4. How the leadership and staff manage this anxiety—whether through healthy differentiation or dysfunctional reactivity—determines the ultimate health and efficacy of the mission. The subsequent analysis explores the practical applications of Steinke’s family systems approach to parachurch ministries, examining the mechanisms of viral anxiety, the necessity of a non-anxious leadership presence, the dynamics of staff overfunctioning, and the systemic sabotage that inevitably accompanies organizational transformation.

1. Theoretical Foundations: The Parachurch as an Emotional System

In works such as How Your Church Family Works, Healthy Congregations, and Congregational Leadership in Anxious Times, Peter L. Steinke translated clinical family systems theory into a practical theology of organizational life1. Steinke argued that any group of people gathered around a shared identity and mission will inevitably function as an emotional system, meaning that the members are “wired together” in a continuous feedback loop of mutual influence2. In this environment, straight-line, linear thinking regarding cause and effect is insufficient; rather, leaders must employ systems thinking, recognizing that behaviors are mutually maintained and influenced by the entire network of relationships2.

The Contagious Nature of Anxiety

The central driver of behavior in an emotional organism is anxiety. Steinke distinguished between acute anxiety, which is a sudden response to a specific threat, and chronic anxiety, which is a lingering, generalized dread or reactivity to change that permeates an environment2. In a parachurch ministry, anxiety is highly infectious. It flows like water from a leaky pipe, typically moving downward from anxious boards to executive leadership, laterally among frontline staff, and reciprocally between staff and the populations they serve8.

Steinke observed that under significant stress, an emotional system loses its capacity for self-reflection3. The “amygdala” of the organization takes over, prompting reactive survival responses rather than rational, principle-based decision-making governed by the higher cognitive functions2. In a Gospel Rescue Mission, this systemic anxiety can be triggered by sudden losses in philanthropic funding, changes in civic policies regarding encampments, or critical incidents involving clients. When the system becomes highly anxious, it demands immediate relief rather than long-term resolution, often pressuring leaders to adopt “quick fixes” that compromise the organization’s core mission and values3. Members of highly anxious systems will often prioritize superficial peace over justice, hesitating to make decisions that might upset the community, thereby playing into the hands of the most dependent or disruptive individuals who use the threat of disharmony to maintain control3.

Differentiation of Self: The Antidote to Systemic Reactivity

The antidote to systemic anxiety, according to Steinke and his predecessor Edwin Friedman, is the “differentiation of self”1. Differentiation is defined as the innate, evolving drive to become a distinct, mature, balanced self—maintaining a clear sense of one’s own identity, values, and principles while remaining emotionally connected to a highly reactive system1. It requires the ability to separate one’s intellectual functioning from emotional reactivity.

Highly differentiated leaders possess the capacity to define themselves clearly, take a principled stand, manage their own anxiety non-reactively, and avoid getting entangled in the emotional fields of others13. Bowen outlined core capacities of differentiated individuals, noting that they monitor and regulate their own functioning maturely, make decisions based on well-defined principles, and resist promoting or maintaining organizational secrets13. Steinke emphasized that while anxiety is contagious, calm is equally contagious13. A leader who can maintain a “non-anxious presence” functions as an immunological response for the organizational body, absorbing the shocks of the system without amplifying them and preventing pathogenic forces from invading the organization’s boundaries2.

Triangulation and Emotional Cutoff

When two individuals or entities within a parachurch ministry experience unresolved tension, the resulting anxiety is often intolerable. Because twosomes (dyads) are inherently unstable under stress, the pair will predictably draw in a third party, creating an emotional “triangle” as the basic molecule of the relationship system1. Triangulation provides short-term relief by diffusing the tension, but it prevents any actual resolution of the core conflict. In a GRM, this frequently manifests as staff complaining to a board member about the executive director, or a client manipulating two case managers against one another to avoid programmatic accountability.

Another dysfunctional mechanism is “emotional cutoff,” where individuals or organizations manage severe anxiety by completely severing relationships1. While this provides immediate distance from the stressor and temporary relief, Steinke warned that emotional cutoff merely buries the anxiety, leaving the underlying systemic patterns intact to resurface elsewhere1. Understanding these multigenerational and systemic patterns allows leaders to break unhealthy cycles and adapt more effectively to organizational challenges.

2. Reframing the Gospel Rescue Mission: The Crisis of Theological Vision

To understand how these emotional dynamics play out practically, one must analyze the unique environment of the modern Gospel Rescue Mission. Historically, GRMs emerged during the late 19th-century urban revivals to rescue individuals from the “shipwreck” of urban vice, pioneered by figures such as Jerry McAuley5. The traditional repertoire of these missions was characterized by the “three S’s”—soup, soap, and salvation—relying on a highly centralized, high-barrier model that mandated chapel attendance, breathalyzer tests, and strict sobriety in exchange for services5.

However, the operating context for GRMs has shifted radically. The secular policy landscape is now dominated by “Housing First” orthodoxies that view homelessness primarily as a structural housing deficit rather than a moral or spiritual crisis5. Furthermore, the populations served by GRMs today suffer from complex dual-diagnoses, profound multi-generational trauma, and the devastating impacts of synthetic opioids such as fentanyl5. Consequently, missions adhering strictly to traditional, high-barrier models face increasing funding exclusion, regulatory pressures, and cultural marginalization, often framed by critics as coercive or paternalistic5.

The Failure of Middleware and Systemic Friction

According to recent sector analyses, including comprehensive consulting reports on the GRM movement, many rescue missions are suffering from a failure of “Theological Vision” or “middleware”5. In an integrated sociological and theological framework, an organization possesses a Doctrinal Foundation (its non-negotiable master frame or ideology) and a Ministry Expression (its repertoire of actions and programs)5. The Theological Vision is the middleware that connects the timeless doctrine to the specific cultural context.

Many GRMs attempt to run 19th-century programmatic software (a vision of moral rescue) on 21st-century clinical hardware, creating massive systemic friction5. The gap between the organization’s historical identity and the demands of the modern street generates profound chronic anxiety across the entire emotional organism. The movement currently struggles to achieve the “critical mass” necessary to define its own terms of engagement, forcing individual missions into a false dilemma: either shrink into irrelevance to maintain doctrinal purity, or capitulate to state-dictated repertoires and funding conditions, risking the loss of their Christian identity5.

When a parachurch ministry lacks a clear, integrated theological vision, the resulting systemic ambiguity makes the organization highly vulnerable to reactive forces9. Steinke noted that where there is little self-definition, there is a vague vision, and where there is a vague vision, “the people perish in their own anxious reactivity. They have no head and are headed nowhere”9. To regain critical mass and reduce systemic anxiety, GRMs must redefine their collective action frames. Successful missions have moved from diagnosing homelessness solely as “sin” to diagnosing it as “relational poverty” or “trauma,” and have adjusted their prognostic and motivational frames accordingly5.

Strategic Reframing: Five Theological Visions

To bridge the gap between historical core values and modern context demands, leading GRMs have pioneered new theological visions that dictate their ministry repertoires. These visions operate as distinct emotional systems with unique methods for managing anxiety and trauma.

Theological VisionCore Diagnostic Frame (The Problem)Core Prognostic Frame (The Solution)Example Ministry Expression / RepertoireRepresentative Organizations
Relational RestorationistHomelessness is a symptom of “Relational Poverty” and social isolation.Stability requires tethering individuals to a thick, healthy community.Mentoring-first models, exchange economies, tiered flight paths, church-based housing.Knox Area Rescue Ministries (KARM), Portland Rescue Mission5.
Redemptive EntrepreneurHomelessness and addiction stem from idleness, economic exclusion, and dependency.True recovery is forged through the discipline of the marketplace and productive work.Social enterprises, work therapy, vocational training to restore dignity and economic agency.The Foundry Ministries, Mel Trotter Ministries5.
Trauma-Informed SanctuaryAddiction and homelessness are symptoms of profound neurobiological trauma and “wounds.”The mission acts as a clinical and theological “Field Hospital” and sanctuary.Integrating licensed clinical counselors, EMDR, and high-engagement street outreach (“pre-therapy”).Seattle Union Gospel Mission (SUGM), Rescue Mission Alliance5.
Incarnational NetworkTraditional centralized shelters are a bottleneck causing cultural distance from the street.The neighborhood is the shelter; decentralize care to reach people where they are.Disciple Making Movements (DMM), pop-up mobile services, equipping laypeople to lead Bible studies in encampments.CityTeam5.
Civic Anchor (Critical Mass)The civic safety net is severely fragmented, allowing the vulnerable to fall through the cracks.Aggregate housing, health, and work on a single mega-campus to create “Critical Mass.”Comprehensive, low-barrier mega-campuses acting as one-stop hubs driven by rigorous data tracking.Springs Rescue Mission, Phoenix Rescue Mission5.

Implementing these new theological visions requires profound differentiation of self from the leadership5. Leaders must possess “dual expertise,” fluent in both systematic theology and clinical social work, to negotiate contracts with secular entities without secularizing the mission’s core identity5. This transition inevitably triggers anxiety among legacy donors, long-term staff, and traditional board members who prefer the old homeostasis. The differentiated GRM leader must calmly articulate the new vision (taking a stand) while staying emotionally connected to those who are resisting the change, thereby guiding the organism through the necessary discomfort of adaptation13.

3. Staff Dynamics: Secondary Traumatic Stress and Overfunctioning

Perhaps the most critical application of Steinke’s family systems theory in a Gospel Rescue Mission pertains to the frontline workforce. The staff of a GRM operate in a continuous state of intense emotional labor, bearing witness to profound human suffering, overdose crises, and systemic societal neglect18. Without a healthy emotional system, the organization risks cannibalizing its most vital resource: its people.

The Threat of Secondary Traumatic Stress (STS)

Extensive literature confirms that shelter workers, caseworkers, and trauma responders are at exceptionally high risk for Secondary Traumatic Stress (STS), compassion fatigue, moral distress, and professional burnout6. STS occurs when the continuous exposure to the traumatic narratives and physical suffering of clients fundamentally alters the worker’s own psychological and emotional functioning, leading to symptoms that mirror Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), such as intrusive thoughts, hyperarousal, and emotional numbing6.

The systemic impact of the COVID-19 pandemic severely exacerbated these conditions, introducing unexpected role changes, understaffing, and a pervasive sense of helplessness among service providers working with the homeless6. This chronic occupational stress is further compounded by the nonprofit sector’s systemic “starvation cycle,” which often prioritizes low overhead ratios at the expense of necessary staff training, clinical supervision, and livable wages, leading to high turnover rates that continuously disrupt the therapeutic alliance between staff and clients23.

Within the framework of the emotional organism, STS is a manifestation of emotional fusion. When staff members lack sufficient differentiation of self, the boundaries between their own emotional state and the trauma of the client become overly permeable2. In family systems theory, high empathy combined with low differentiation is a primary risk factor for STS30. The staff member absorbs the chronic anxiety and despair of the client population into their own nervous system.

Research evaluating the empathy profiles of trauma workers reveals distinct categories of functioning. Workers displaying a “self-focused” empathy profile—dominated by high personal distress when witnessing the suffering of others—report the worst occupational functioning and highest burnout30. Conversely, an “other-oriented” profile, characterized by high perspective-taking and empathic concern coupled with strong self-other differentiation, correlates with positive functioning and resilience30.

Overfunctioning and Underfunctioning Reciprocity

Steinke’s material highlights a highly predictable relational pattern that emerges in anxious systems: the reciprocity of overfunctioning and underfunctioning32. In the context of a GRM, highly empathetic but poorly differentiated staff members frequently respond to the trauma, chaos, and apparent helplessness of their clients by “overfunctioning.” They take on excessive responsibility for the client’s recovery, managing their schedules, making their decisions, absorbing their responsibilities, and shielding them from the natural consequences of their behavior.

This dynamic is not merely a personal flaw of the worker; it is a systemic feedback loop32. The staff member’s overfunctioning provides temporary relief from their own anxiety regarding the client’s precarious situation. However, this excessive competence and responsibility-taking directly reinforces the client’s passivity and “underfunctioning.” The more the staff member handles, the less the client is required to do, perpetuating a state of learned helplessness and dependency that directly undermines the mission’s goal of holistic recovery, economic independence, and relational restoration32.

The Clinical Buffer of Differentiation

Empirical research indicates that differentiation of self acts as a powerful clinical buffer against STS and burnout among trauma workers, including social workers and clergy29. Highly differentiated social workers and shelter staff can maintain deep empathic connection with clients (healthy closeness) while maintaining distinct emotional boundaries (healthy separateness)2. They recognize that they can facilitate an environment for healing, but they cannot force a client’s recovery or absorb the client’s pathology into their own nervous system.

By training GRM staff in the principles of Bowen Family Systems Theory and trauma-informed care (TIC), parachurch organizations can shift their culture from one of enmeshed codependency to one of differentiated empowerment36.

Organizational DynamicLow-Differentiated GRM Staff ResponseHigh-Differentiated GRM Staff ResponseSystemic Outcome
Client Crisis / RelapseAbsorbs client anxiety; engages in panic or rescue behaviors (overfunctioning).Maintains a non-anxious presence; helps client evaluate choices rationally.Fosters client accountability and reduces staff STS.
Interpersonal ConflictEngages in triangulation (e.g., complaining to a colleague instead of the client/manager).Addresses the issue directly with the individual involved (person-to-person relationship).Reduces organizational toxicity and prevents rumors.
Emotional BoundariesExperiences fusion; bases own self-worth on the client’s success or failure.Exhibits healthy separateness; recognizes the limits of their control over others.Protects against compassion fatigue and extends career longevity.
Rule EnforcementEnforces rules inconsistently based on emotional reactivity, fear of conflict, or guilt.Applies program boundaries clearly, calmly, and consistently without punitive anger.Creates a predictable, trauma-informed sanctuary for all guests.

4. Navigating Systemic Sabotage and Homeostasis

When a Gospel Rescue Mission attempts to evolve—such as transitioning from a high-barrier shelter enforcing strict compliance to a low-barrier, trauma-informed “Community of Hope” (as seen in the Springs Rescue Mission model)—the organizational organism will inevitably resist5. In biological and family systems, “homeostasis” is the relentless drive to maintain a stable, familiar state, preserving the organizing principles of its existence even if that state is ultimately dysfunctional, stagnant, or declining40.

The Inevitability of Sabotage

Edwin Friedman and Peter Steinke emphasized that any leader who introduces adaptive change and begins to differentiate from the prevailing emotional fusion of the system will face “sabotage”3. Sabotage is a systemic phenomenon; it is not necessarily malicious, but rather the system’s natural, self-corrective attempt to pull the leader back into the old equilibrium40. Steinke noted that religious institutions are often the worst offenders at encouraging immaturity and irresponsibility, allowing passive-aggressive members to hold the whole system hostage under the guise of superficial Christian harmony40.

In a GRM, sabotage might manifest as a group of veteran staff members subtly undermining new trauma-informed protocols, claiming that the new approach is “too soft” and violates the historical ethos of the mission14. It might manifest as major donors threatening to pull funding because the mission has chosen to integrate clinical mental health therapies alongside traditional Bible studies (the “Trauma-Informed Sanctuary” model), or because the mission has opted for a decentralized Disciple Making Movement approach that abandons the traditional centralized shelter5.

Steinke advised that leaders must expect this sabotage as a sign that genuine change is occurring; in fact, the more progress a leader makes toward healthy functioning, the stronger the reaction will be3. The failure of many parachurch initiatives is not due to a lack of strategic planning, but a “failure of nerve” in the face of this systemic pushback43. If the executive leadership becomes anxious, reactive, or defensive in response to the sabotage, the system wins, and the organization reverts to its previous state.

The Balancing Act: Courage and Connection

Steinke outlined that leading through anxious times requires a delicate, paradoxical balancing act. The leader must take a bold, imaginative stand for the future of the mission (courage) while simultaneously refusing to cut off those who disagree (connection)10.

If a leader attempts to force change autocratically without managing the emotional process, or relies purely on data and technique, the system will reject them as an invasive pathogen14. Conversely, if a leader prioritizes superficial peace over the necessary friction of growth, the organization will stagnate3. In his book A Door Set Open, Steinke noted that organizations resist change less when that change is deeply associated with a compelling mission and fortified with theological hope45. By consistently framing programmatic changes as a return to the core Biblical mandates of the mission—rather than merely adopting secular best practices—GRM leaders can lower the systemic anxiety and guide the organism through the liminal space of transformation46. The differentiated leader accepts that conflict is a necessary crucible for reshaping rigid interaction patterns and uses an element of surprise to disrupt deeply entrenched systemic habits3.

5. External Triangulation: Civic Anxiety and the Non-Anxious Presence

The emotional organism of a parachurch ministry does not exist in a vacuum; it is deeply embedded within the broader emotional system of the city or municipality it serves. Gospel Rescue Missions frequently find themselves at the center of intense civic anxiety regarding public safety, homelessness, neighborhood gentrification, and the visibility of unhoused encampments48.

When civic anxiety runs high, municipal governments, local businesses, and neighborhood coalitions often triangulate the GRM. The mission is frequently scapegoated as an “attractive nuisance” that draws undesirable populations to the area, or alternatively, criticized by progressive activists for maintaining high-barrier requirements that exclude the most vulnerable5.

Case Study: Resolving Civic Conflict in Escondido

A powerful practical application of Steinke’s principles of managing systemic anxiety, avoiding emotional cutoff, and enacting differentiated leadership can be observed in the recent historical relationship between Interfaith Community Services (ICS) and the City of Escondido in Southern California51.

ICS operates critical shelter and social services in Escondido, a city that has experienced a significant increase in visible homelessness and corresponding public fatigue51. In an environment of heightened civic anxiety, ideological divides regarding how to address encampments and the operation of local shelters led to severe organizational friction. In 2023, the City Council took actions that threatened the funding and the Conditional Use Permit (CUP) of ICS’s Haven House shelter, leading to public warnings from ICS leadership that the city was exacerbating homelessness by exploring moratoriums on services52.

In family systems terms, the emotional system comprising the city and the nonprofit had become highly reactive. Both parties were on the precipice of emotional cutoff, a state where communication ceases and both sides retreat into entrenched, defensive postures, a dynamic that historically plagued relationships between cities and regional shelters1.

However, rather than succumbing to the “bind of courage” by simply fighting aggressively or walking away entirely, the leadership of both ICS and the City of Escondido demonstrated remarkable differentiation of self13. They chose to engage directly and constructively, effectively “de-triangulating” the conflict by refusing to allow public rhetoric to dictate their ongoing operational relationship51.

The application of non-anxious, differentiated leadership yielded several systemic breakthroughs:

  1. Reframing the Conflict: Instead of remaining locked in an ideological battle over encampment ordinances (which ICS generally opposed), the two entities focused on a shared prognostic frame: ensuring that individuals displaced by municipal cleanups received immediate, compassionate care. The city handled the physical abatement of “the jungle” encampment, while ICS coordinated critical onsite resources, connecting dozens of displaced individuals directly to services51.
  2. Maintaining Connection Amidst Disagreement: The leadership committed to open dialogue and mutual respect, recognizing that they did not have to agree on every underlying policy to collaborate on community health outcomes51.
  3. Adaptive Compromise and I-Position: Recognizing the community’s anxiety regarding the physical environment around the shelter, ICS launched a dedicated downtown cleanup crew, taking an “I-position” of responsibility that actively lowered the systemic anxiety of local businesses and residents51.
  4. Systemic Healing and Output: By lowering the temperature of the relationship, the City Council subsequently approved an updated CUP and supported a $12 million grant proposal to expand the number of medically supported detox beds at the ICS facility from 10 to 3251. Ultimately, this collaborative, de-escalated approach contributed to a 23% reduction in unsheltered homelessness in Escondido in the 2025 Point-in-Time count51.

This case vividly illustrates Steinke’s premise: when leaders manage their own anxiety, refuse the temptation of emotional cutoff, and maintain person-to-person relationships across ideological divides, they can fundamentally alter the emotional field of the entire community, yielding tangible civic and programmatic success3.

6. Synthesizing Trauma-Informed Care with Family Systems Theory

As Gospel Rescue Missions increasingly adopt the “Trauma-Informed Sanctuary” or “Relational Restorationist” models outlined in the CityVision Reframing Report5, the integration of Family Systems Theory becomes a clinical necessity. Trauma-informed care (TIC) recognizes that clients are often acting out of profound neurobiological adaptations to past abuse, systemic poverty, and relational abandonment37.

However, TIC is incomplete if it only focuses on the pathology of the client. Steinke’s material reminds organizational leaders that the system itself must be trauma-informed and emotionally regulated2. If a GRM employs trauma-specific clinical interventions (such as cognitive behavioral therapy or EMDR) but maintains an organizational culture characterized by toxic triangulation, secret-keeping, and highly anxious, reactive management, the environment will continuously re-traumatize both the clients and the staff2.

The Healing Milieu

For marginalized individuals, the initial encounter with a GRM is a vital theological and clinical space. For populations defined by mistrust, a hospitality-first, low-barrier model dissolves the traditional power imbalances and establishes emotional safety, acting as a clinical prerequisite for any subsequent therapeutic intervention39. In a systems framework, this requires the staff to present a calm, regulated nervous system to the client. A dysregulated, anxious staff member will inevitably trigger a dysregulated, anxious response from a traumatized guest2.

Therefore, investing in the emotional maturity and self-differentiation of the staff is not merely an HR retention strategy; it is a direct programmatic intervention28. A staff body that understands how to manage emotional triangles, how to avoid overfunctioning for guests, and how to maintain healthy boundaries provides a stabilizing “holding environment” where true relational and spiritual restoration can occur. It prevents the organization from collapsing into codependent patterns that merely manage misery rather than transforming lives.

Conclusion

The application of Peter L. Steinke’s adaptation of Bowen Family Systems Theory offers a transformative paradigm for the leadership and management of parachurch ministries. By conceptualizing the Gospel Rescue Mission as an emotional organism, leaders are equipped to see beyond the superficial symptoms of organizational distress—such as high turnover, donor conflict, or civic friction—and address the underlying emotional processes that drive them.

The contemporary GRM operates in an era of unprecedented complexity. To survive the starvation cycles of nonprofit funding, navigate the secular pressures of municipal policy, and effectively minister to populations suffering from severe trauma and addiction, these organizations require a robust and coherent Theological Vision that bridges timeless doctrine with modern clinical realities. More importantly, they require leaders and staff who possess the differentiation of self necessary to implement that vision.

The evidence definitively suggests that when leaders function as a non-anxious presence, they immunize their organizations against the viral spread of chronic anxiety. By anticipating sabotage, resisting the urge for emotional cutoff, dismantling toxic triangles, and mitigating the devastating effects of secondary traumatic stress, leaders can guide their ministries through necessary adaptive changes. Ultimately, a Gospel Rescue Mission that masters its own emotional processes is uniquely positioned to serve as a true sanctuary—a resilient, redemptive enterprise capable of extending the peace, dignity, and holistic restoration of the Gospel to the most vulnerable members of society.

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This report was generated by Google Gemini Deep Research using the prompt:

“Write a paper on practical applications of Peter L. Steinke’s material on Congregation as an emotional organism for parachurch ministries. Use specific examples of how this might be applied to a Gospel Rescue Mission”. It was reviewed by Dr. Andrew Sears for accuracy.

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